Britney and I originally met a couple years ago when I photographed
her cousin, Destiny's wedding. It absolutely delighted me when I found
out she wanted me to photograph her wedding! She's such a sweet, very
smart young woman with a wicked sense of humor.
About
2 weeks after our first consultation she called me, practically in
tears. I could hear in her voice how panicked she was, which really
worried me. I know how crazy things get as the day gets closer, so as
she was introducing the issue to me, I thought about every issue that
could possibly go wrong. As it turned out, the relative who was hosting
her (gorgeous!) backyard wedding had just let her know that the original
date of the wedding was not doable because they
would be out of town. That put Britney in a sticky situation. Almost in
tears, she asked me, "Is there any possible way you're available the
following weekend? I know you're always booked months in advance, and I
understand if you are. But I'm totally willing to work this wedding
around your schedule if you're free the following weeks." I wish she was
standing in front of me at that moment so I could just grab her and hug
her. My goodness. I checked my schedule and as it turned out, I had a
TFP shoot that could easily be rescheduled. I let her know that I was
definitely available and she shrieked! Oh my gosh, I was so excited for
her! She was finally going to be able to put on her dream wedding!
Everything
proceeded just fine until the next phone call from her, about a week
before the wedding, "Ande, I'll pay you whatever it is that you ask for.
I'm so sorry to spring this on you. I just cannot get a hold of a
makeup artist. Every single one who has been recommended to me has not
followed through with their appointments with me! Is there any way you
can do my makeup before the wedding?"
"Of course, love! I would love to!"
What
an eventful wedding! Small ceremonies are always so sweet. An adorable
young man with Downs Syndrome became "the model" that is always at every
wedding. I normally have to run away from them because they're so
consumed with, "Omg, wait, let's get another one! I'm totally gna pose
like this! I'm a model, ya know. I've modeled for my Uncle Bob" and it's
really irritating, lol. But this young man was such a change of pace,
and so delightful! I found out he would be my model as I was testing my
lighting in the living room. I was just aiming the camera randomly and
slowly, a goofy smile appears before my lens. The lighting was too dark.
I raise the camera again, adjust settings and there he is making a
goofy face. Perfect light, shining on a total goofball. Even if I was
just resting my camera near him, I'd see him out of the corner of my eye
just waiting like a ninja in the night, his eyes set on my camera and
me. He was the best wedding model I've had! After the ceremony I was
wrapping up shots of the bride and groom in the house. My back was
turned toward the rest of the house while I photographed the couple at
the bar. All of a sudden, I feel a big bear hug from behind me. I wasn't
very familiar with anyone there so I didn't know how to react to
feeling a giant hug around my waist. When I turned around, there was
that giant, goofball smile with those big, angel eyes staring up at me! I
gave him a big bear hug right back! When his mom saw this, her jaw
dropped, "He doesn't trust the majority of women around him. I've never,
ever seen him do that to anyone, especially a woman. You have something
special about you that he likes!" I explained to her that I have a way
with kids, animals and special needs children and adults. They see my
aura and know I'm completely harmless. She was so happy to see him
trusting a woman who he just met!
Congrats to the newlyweds! What a beautiful ceremony!